For those who gain My preference, the rewards are staggering. I have shared deep, life-changing friendships with many of My acolytes. We laugh, we cry, we confide our deepest secrets. My style of D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationship is very non-traditional and based on a mutual trust and devotion. Although achievable, these delights are not easy to garner. I have very specific tastes and expectations. The things that most endear you to Me are simple; find the perfect mixture of a few of My top preferences and you will be ushered into the upper echelons of My favor.

• Manners and Attentiveness. Show Me your best self and you will receive My best. The most positive first impression you can give Me is showing that you have read and followed all of the salient instructions of My carefully crafted website. Approach Me in the most direct yet courteous manner you can achieve (I am very understanding of writing and language barriers, but I can spot sloppiness a mile away). Do not use a proliferation of hints if you are looking for something specific. Do not come across crass or demanding.
• Respect. My role is clear and strict, but I am also a human being with the same emotional capacities as you. I can be busy, stressed, tired, overwhelmed or out of sorts. I am careful enough not to play when I am not completely in the headspace. This means that sometimes I am not available in any capacity, no matter how you beg. Respect My times to rest and recharge. Respect that I contain a multitude and sometimes I belong to different world. Do not flood My inbox with pleas or expect a coy exchange just because you are in the mood. This will quickly downgrade you in My esteem.
• Generosity. Generosity shows that you value My time, effort and skill. Each session represents a monumental, personalized work of art. My favorite acolytes stand awed by this superb experience and make sure that I know it. Generosity is an aspect of female domination that will heighten and elevate our relationship. My favorites tribute profusely and without provocation. Your generosity can also extend to making sure our sessions are equipped with the finest and most interesting of tools. I am a connoisseur of fine fetish implements and nothing makes Me happier than a submissive who wishes to share and expand My collection. I have planned and executed some truly outrageous sessions in this manner; we simply pick a theme and make it unfold unforgettably, using a new and exciting array of tools.
• Building a Relationship. I thrive in committed D/s relationships. Our first session together will redefine what BDSM and fetishism means to you, but it is in our subsequent sessions that you will truly understand your submission, servitude and the true bliss of surrender. I focus on trust building, personal growth and bonding. My empathetic nature and inexhaustible versatility are deeply addictive. Yet do not fear; I seek out sustainability and commitment, never to exhaust or exploit you. Many of My subs have been devoted to Me for 6+ years and we form an integral part of each others lives.